TRUE TYPES POST #28: CHRIS (FORMERLY BLAINE)
DISC: Primary I profile; result: I (S) (C), slot 8
SOJT type: Fe-s (D<A auxiliary serves as dominant)
MBTI type most resonant: ESFP
What were you like in high school?
In high school, I was part of the "in" crowd, but I resented that, because if you were "in", people liked you for what you had, and I wanted to be liked for who I was. I was also a star athlete, particularly on the football team, where I was almost always the MVP.
(Note: "football" here is talking about American football, for context's sake)
What is your greatest fear? What do you do to address it?
My greatest fear is losing control of my weight or my finances. I address the finances, by not using cash, and only buying what I need, and nothing more, on a card. I found it helps. As far as my weight, I exercise some practically every day, about 90% of what I eat is vegan, and I measure my body fat regularly
Was there a time in your life where you felt you hit rock bottom? What was the situation behind it?
It was when I ended up being wrongfully convicted, and sent to prison. It was a hard thing, but it was good in the end, for many reasons
Where would you put yourself on the social spectrum, and why?
I would say I'm an ambivert, straight up. When I'm in conversations with people, I'm listening more often than talking, for sure.
What are some things that really bother you?
People who aren't genuine and real, people who are cruel, and people who are dishonest, particularly those who manipulate others
What, would you say, are your biggest strengths?
I'm very real, and honest about everything.. I'm like an open book. I have a deep love and compassion for others. I am very brave, in that I am willing to risk my own life to save the lives of others
What, would you say, are your biggest weaknesses?
I give up too easily. I need persistent people in my life, to keep me going. I'm really bad at planning things. Don't ask me to plan anything without someone helping me. I'm also highly disorganized and am frequently late. Because of these things, people see me as rather unreliable, even though you really can rely on me in most areas. Them being so narrow minded makes me sad
When you switch your attitude between introverted and extroverted, or vise versa, what are you like?
When I'm introverted, I become suspicious of others, and start questioning things. And , of course, I have to check, cross check and verify everything
What was the hardest thing you ever had to do? Why was it so hard?
The hardest thing I ever had to do, and one of the reasons I'm glad I was sent to prison, was to report my brother-in-law and some associates of his to the police. They were killing people, under the belief that they were doing the right thing, as part of a white supremacist group. They had tried to kill me many times, as well, because I didn't want to join them and had opposite views. So I had to wait until I was in a place where I could be under police protection before I reported them. Funny how things worked out
What are you like when you're sad?
When I'm sad, I get alone, and cry in private
How masculine/feminine do you feel in relation to others of your gender?
I'm, like, super masculine. I'm really big and strong and full of energy. I'm not afraid to use my physical size and strength to stop a fight, or save someone's life. I've done that many times before.
Here's 4 focuses you can have in life: tasks, people, objects and ideas. Which one would be your primary focus and why? Which one would be your secondary focus and why?
Objects are definitely my number one focus. I am a construction worker, I am still very athletic, and I also make crafts I sell online. They are my life, first and foremost. Second, I would say people. I have a loving and compassionate heart, and I care about everyone, particularly my wife and children
What do you do to have fun?
Physical things, and adventures. And I love to go on them with my wife and children. And they don't mind. They like physical things and adventures, just like me
What was the nicest thing you ever did for someone, and why did you do it?
There's many things I've done, and I've talked about many of them already, but I also want to add that I raised my niece and nephew as my own children. I saw my parents trying to raise them, and thought since I was younger, and more of a child raising age, that I would let my parents have a normal grandparent- grandchild relationship with them, and I would raise them as my children. Both of them, especially my niece, like to call me Dad, even though they know I'm really their uncle. It makes me feel so special and loved.
Thank you, Chris, for sharing with us
Additional typologies I've been able to do since:
Big 5: High on E, A, N; Low on O,C (SLUAN)
Enneagram: 3w4, sx/sp, 379
Sociotype: SEE-Fi (A), SEE-N (G)
7 intelligences: Excellent in kinesthetic and spatial; good in interpersonal, intrapersonal and musical; average in logical/mathematical; low in linguistic
Greek Temperament Blend: Sanguine/Choleric