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hot take!!! dnis should only apply for people who plan on following u / befriending u. u cant realistically expect people to read ur entire dni before simply liking or reblogging ur post. if u dont want someone viewing ur content then block them. ur responsible for ur own internet experience

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some post: THE FOLLOWING USER IS A PEDOPHILE

me: ah what undesirable™ ship is it today

THIS!!! THIS IS THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!! THIS IS WHY THIS PETTY PEDOPHILIA POINTING GAME IS SUCH A FUCKING ISSUE AND PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST DANGEROUS TRENDS OUT THERE.

THERE ARE REAL ACTUAL PREDATORS ON THE INTERNET AND ON TUMBLR TOO IM SURE. BUT IS ANYONE GONNA TAKE A PEDOPHILE WARNING SERIOUSLY NOW??? ON TUMBLR.DOT.HELL WHERE ANY AND EVERYONE WHO YOU DISAGREE WITH IS “PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE!” NO!! NO THEY ARE NOT.

HONESTLY ALL THIS FUCKING BULLSHIT ABOUT TRYING TO FIGHT PEDOPHILES AND KEEP KIDS SAFE IN FANDOM SPACES GOING TO THE ABSURD LEVELS THAT IT HAS, PROBABLY HAS THE EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT.

YOU ARE GIVING ACTUAL PREDATORS A PLACE TO HIDE. IN BETWEEN ALL THE ABSURDITY AND SHIP BULLSHIT.

YOU’RE GIVING PEDOPHILIA WARNINGS AN EYEROLL AND AN “ugh what is it now” RESPONSE.

IM MAD. IM MAD THAT PEOPLE WHO CLAIM THEY’RE TRYING TO KEEP OTHERS SAFE WOULD THROW A WORD LIKE THAT AROUND SO CARELESSLY,TO THE EXTEND THAT PEOPLE HAVE BECOME DOWNRIGHT DESENSITIEZED TO IT.

BEING ACUSED OF PEDOFILIA ON TUMBLR ISNT EVEN SERIOUS. YOU DISAGREE WITH SOMEONE ON A HEADCANON AND YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE. YOU SHIP SOMEONES NOTP YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPILE. YOU DISAGREE WITH SOMEONES OPINION AND YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE.

AND DO YOU KNOW WHO, THIS BENEFITS MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE???? THAT NO ONE TAKES AN ACCUSATION LIKE THAT SERIOUSLY??????

ACTUAL FUCKING PEDOPHILES. ACTUAL FUCKING PEDOPHILES WHO NOW HAVE A MILLION AND ONE EXCUSES TO GIVE OTHERS IF THEY’RE CALLED OUT AND DISCOVERED.

THE WHOLE PEDOPHILIA RAGE ON THIS SITE IS INFURIATING AS IT IS. ITS A DISGUSTING THING TO BE CALLED WITHOUT ANY GROUNDS.  BUT WORST OF ALL ITS DOWN RIGHT FUCKING DANGEROUS.

IF YOU’VE EVER PARTICIPATED IN THIS PEDOPHILIA SMEAR CAMPAIN. IF YOU’VE EVER ACCUSED SOMEONE OF PEDOPHILIA WITHOUT HAVING EVIDENCE OF THEM TRYING TO HURT A CHILD, OR ADVOCATING PEDOHILIC BEHAVIOR. IF YOU’VE EVER ACCUSED SOMEONE OF PEDOPHILIA OVER SOME PETTY FANDOM DISAGREEMENT BECAUSE YOU THOUGHT IT WOULD SURELY GIVE YOU THE UPPER HAND. IF YOU WERE ONE OF THE PEOPLE WHO HELPED TURN “PEDOPHILIA” INTO A BUZZWORD.

YOU HAVENT MADE FANDOM A SAFE SPACE. YOU’VE MADE FANDOM INTO A SPACE WHERE ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE ARE DRIVEN OFF BASED ON HOW POPULAR THE BLOG THAT MADE THE CLAIM WAS, AND HOW MANY NOTES THE CALLOUT POST GOT.

MEANWHILE YOU’VE GIVEN ACTUAL PREDATORS THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT.

I HOPE YOU KNOW THAT.

TL;D-FUCKING-R DO NOT CALL PEOPLE FUCKING PEDOPHILES UNLESS YOU HAVE EVIDENCE WITH THEM TRYING TO HARM ACTUAL KIDS. PLEASE.

NOT JUST BECAUSE ITS A SHITTY FUCKING THING TO DO, BUT BECAUSE ITS FUCKING DANGEROUS.

idk who needs to hear this but you're ALLOWED to be angry at antis.

these people treat you like shit. they damage your mental health on a daily basis. they put real people in danger. they hurt your community. they encourage suicide. they traumatize people. they trigger survivors.

you don't owe them kindness.

Again. Proshipers also do all those things. Oh but maybe rping as your rapist inst traumatizing or triggering in your opinion. Both sides are ass stop acting like they aren’t

I don’t think you understand how invalidating and frankly scary these post are to people who are the victims of this stuff by proshipers

Both sides have monsters and you need to except that

ProShippers don’t harass people or send bombs or suicide bait people.

If they do then they’re by definition, an Anti. Even if they enjoy “problematic” content. Or they’re just jerks. But they’re not ProShip.

ProShip =/= Liking Problematic Content

ProShip = Anti Harassment

AntiShip = Pro Harassment

Also if you’re actually triggered by something or someone, BLOCK them & BLACKLIST the tags.

You’re not a infant, you can curate your own experience & protect yourself.

If you actively seek out that which bothers you so much, that’s on YOU, no one else.

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