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“Your soulmate is not someone that comes into your life peacefully. It is someone who comes to make you question things, who changes your reality, somebody that marks a before and after in your life. It is not the human being everyone has idealized but an ordinary person, who manages to revolutionize your world in a second.”

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Friendly reminder that asexual and/or aromantic =/= not wanting kids, so please stop saying they do.

I get that you don't want them. That's cool. But that's not an asexual thing and it's not an aromantic thing. It's a you thing.

As an aroace person who does want kids, and finds that complicated by being aroace, those posts come off as dismissive at best. So please just stop.

I will agree and add to this; your aspec ID can be linked to you not wanting kids if you want/you feel like it is!!

I know that not wanting biological kids is tide to my asexual ID but me not wanting any kids is a me thing.

(oh fuck I've been reblogged by the post-blower-uppers)

YES, I also do not want biological kids and never have, and that is linked to my asexuality and aromanticism in some ways. I did not mean to imply that it couldn't be.

I just meant (as you clarified), that wanting to be child-free is not an aspec thing.

o7 yep, we got the same “no bio kids” but different ideas about kids in general, and that’s perfectly okay!! :D

Not wanting bio kids for me is definitely an asexual thing, the idea of pregnancy or sexual intercourse leading to pregnancy makes me physically ill. Like I’ll rip out my uterus.

But not wanting kids in general is because of my own personal issues with children, therefore not linked to ace. (A mix of childhood trauma, life and economic shit, environmental factors and my personal goals in life. For those interested)

(Re-re clarifying just in case lmao)

(Sorry for reblogging you :()

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